If you're not sure yet, that's OK. Come back any time. The tips & techniques in our little ebook have helped thousands of people transform their approach to conflict. Have another look if you like!
“Imagine you could sort things out more easily, using just a few techniques to transform any argument or conflict. - Scott C. Docherty ”
WE'RE HERE TO HELP YOU
You experience it every day, right?
So what if you could stop arguments in their tracks, and sort things out, stripping hassle from your life?
So How To Prepare For Difficult Conversations is a free ebook prepared by our founder, Scott Docherty, mediator, author & Vice Chair of Scottish Mediation.
It's based on years of experience and research, and designed to guide you in basic steps through the theories and tips you can apply in any difficult conversation you face.
“Thanks so much for taking the time to read this. Trust me, it could change your life!”
Scott - MIYP Founder
Over 10,000 words of tips & techniques to prepare for any argument, negotiation or difficult conversation.
Download it to any device, take it with you, read it anywhere at your own pace, and keep it forever.
Once you apply the techniques, you'll have every chance of transforming every potential conflict into an opportunity.
So how will this help you?
No matter the work you do, the life you lead, you're faced with conflict everywhere. The tips & techniques laid out in this guide are an introduction to the deeper concepts explored in pocketconflictcoach, our course on how you can truly transform your approach to conflict.
After reading this free resource, you will have a deeper understanding of what really goes on in your brain and in the brain of others you face in conflict. In the lead up to or in the middle of an argument, ever wonder why you get angry, why you get anxious or freeze up? By thinking through your brain's innate mechanisms of survival, you will learn how to regain control, improve your approach and see conflict as an opportunity to learn and grow,
Wherever & whenever, it will be there for you to reflect on, and if we update it, you'll get immediate access.
Explore conflict like never before. Absorb our experience in conflict resolution, and pick up new skills.
In time, with practise, you will see a real difference in how your difficult conversations go.
This very helpful book is clearly based on personal insights gleaned by Scott during his many years working as a mediator. Perhaps the best part, and most useful, is chapter three on ‘practical steps’. It concentrates on asking people to reflect on what their conflict is about, how it has made them feel, what the conflict has led to in practical terms in their life, all before seeking to engage in discussion.
People need to reflect clearly before they engage, is the message, and what their contribution to the conflict has been. This is difficult, but Scott has come up with ideas, proposals, different options to help you towards a positive relationship with those with whom they’re in conflict. Scott’s reflections are of an intensely practical and helpful nature, and people would do well to consider his thoughts prior to engaging in difficult conversations.
I highly commend this book to mediators and to anyone involved
in personal conflict.
You're willing to give it a go, right? To pick up skills in conflict resolution shared only by a minority of people on the planet. To change what you think, how you think. To go on and boss conflict.
Here are some common questions about How To Prepare For Difficult Conversations.
Nope! We believe that everyone deserves the chance to improve their effectiveness in conflict, and we believe this because somewhere down the line, we want the minority of folks who know all this stuff to become the majority. In short, we want world peace, and so want to start you off in this journey at no cost to you other than some time out of your day!
You'll need a device like a PC, laptop, tablet or smartphone, and an internet connection to download it. It's a PDF document, so you'll need a reader like AdobeReader. Beyond that, some time and no distractions so that you can absorb it as best you can!
Well, that depends on what guides you've read before. We think this is a new way to approach difficult conversations. Others have tried this way and written or spoken about it, and over time we've learned through the failure and success of each technique we lay out. All you need to do is to read it, reflect on how it might transform your thinking in conflict, and see what happens. If it doesn't work for you, don't worry, as the fact you've given it a go suggests that you're on the right track in changing your opportunities in life.
Sure, what would you like to know? Let us know via our contact form and we'll come back to you as soon as we can. Before you give this little ebook a go, we want you to be sure as the surest person in Suretown that this is for you, so give us a holler! Here's the contact page.